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{一月 25, 2009}   异乡团圆

距上一次在加拿大过年后,这是第二次得佳节倍思亲了!唉!还好在伦敦有个干妈咪,时常照顾我们,佳节到来当然得和她庆一庆团圆啦!刚好室友的朋友前来,都是同乡的,凑一凑还可以成一席呢!这个农历新年我们并不孤单。。。真想向远处的家人和朋友高喊:“新年快乐!心想事成!希望你们也一样过得很好!我好想你们噢!”

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{一月 17, 2009}   If

寂寞,会让人的心变冰冷,不论外头的天有多寒,地有多冻,依然不算什么。我独自一人走在寒冷的街头上,轻轻的哼着这首歌,只有寂寞陪伴着我。。。

演唱:莫文蔚

Lyrics: David Gates

Music: David Gates

If a man could be two places at one time, I’d be with you.
Tomorrow and today, beside you all the way.

If the world should stop revolving spinning slowly down to die,
I’d spend the end with you. And when the world was through.

Then one by one the stars would all go out,
and you and I would simply fly away.

If a picture paints a thousand words,
then why can’t I paint you?
The words will never show. The you I’ve come to know.
If a face could launch a thousand ships,
then where am I to go?
There’s no one home but you, you’re all that’s left me too.

And when my love for life is running dry,
you come and pour yourself on me.

If a man could be two places at one time, I’d be with you.
Tomorrow and today, beside you all the way.

If the world should stop revolving spinning slowly down to die,
I’d spend the end with you. And when the world was through.

Then one by one the stars would all go out,
and you and I would simply fly away.



{一月 8, 2009}   暹罗之恋

寂寞是什么?“小时候,寂寞是因为没有朋友,而长大后,却更是寂寞得害怕。如果很爱一个人,我们可以忍受有一天,可能会失去他?离别这件事,也是生命的一部分,但是这样真的可以吗?很爱一个人,却不害怕有一天失去他?但是我又会想,可以这样吗?我们不去爱任何人,但是这样的话,我们还可以活下去吗?这便是寂寞。”如果真的爱一个人,怎能不害怕和他分离,而我们必须接受现实。于是,长大了,寂寞就是没有了爱,比没有朋友更寂寞。即使短暂也会刻骨铭心,那些点亮我们生命的爱,就仿佛这个发生在暹罗的爱情故事。——暹罗之恋

完全脱离了泰国惊悚片的影子,是少有的青春同志片,配上悦耳动听的音乐,诉说着那青涩的时代所面对的矛盾与无奈。曾经那个时候的自己也想过我能够承受面对离别吗?当我深深的爱着某一个人,我会更害怕失去他。可是这往往是我们所不能逃避的,继而得学习面对现实,学习去珍惜。看完这部片,让我更深感触的反而是亲情的部分,离别是痛苦的,但我们要积极面对以及更珍惜身边所拥有的不是吗?这算是比较含蓄的同志片,同时也在诉说着东方人在面对同志情的害怕与矛盾。亲人能接受与否对他们来说是无比的重要,反之西方人在面对同志情的自在和接受程度则较轻松得多。

许多时候,我们都陷入爱的迷惘中不能自拔,我们常常在寻找爱的定义,可是到最后那个答案似乎又不是我们要的答案了!



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